I will try to answer this question in more detail since many couples encounter this problem.
You understand everything right since you say that your guilt is false. I recall the words of Jesus Christ from the Bible: "Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to turn a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law" (Matthew 10:34, 35).
More facts from history. Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ, had seven children, and only one brother, Jacob, believed and followed Him. It is how the immutable Law of Choice works. Even countless logical arguments and the power of the Word of God could not overcome the stubbornness of the rational mind of His relatives. As you can see, you are not alone in this.
I remind you that the concept of love is unknown to people. Selfish imposition of their life outlook plus sexual desire is not love yet. Genuine love comes when our body connects with the spirit, which is love. Then egoism is destroyed and, with it, everything impure and false in a person. It allows an incredible stream of happiness. It bursts out of you, and you want to give it away, but ... receiving the flow of love in return is possible only from an equal. And where are these equals? Hello?!
So suffering begins, for the soul does not want to give itself without love, but the flesh demands its own. The Darkness uses it - it is the perfect instrument. Through intimate dissatisfaction and compromise with the soul, the Darkness drags down even the strong in faith. In this case, on the scale, we have either love, Light, and, ultimately, salvation or a very temporary, relatively comfortable personal life. Upon making the wrong choice, our destinies will quickly respond to the betrayal of the soul by countless troubles. The decision always remains ours.
It is also very challenging for a spiritually strong man and woman who encounter real love. The Darkness, with all its might, day and night furiously attacks such a couple, using insidious tricks and temptations, testing the couple's strength. It is a natural act for the Darkness because Light comes through love, and the Darkness and Lucifer are anti-love and antichrist.

Such interaction begins with a strong faith that connects you with your spirit and further with the Light. At the same time, if the spiritual guides note that you are not lazy and regularly exert your will and reduce your mistakes, then your intuitive perception appears. This perception will form a dialogue with the Upper World, translating the radiation directed toward you into images and thoughts your brain can comprehend. The same intuitive perception registers the "hue" of the radiation and does not allow you to believe in false information.

A person can be good, even fantastic, and still a materialist. He denies God, Who gave him life, a beautiful habitat, etc. The brain suffered from dementia, in this case, and all negative emotions once externally controlled now surfaced. Regardless of what state a person finds himself in, he always answers before the Law of Justice, for he is far from holiness. And the burdensome care that you must provide for him is your karma.

Compensation is beneficial in order to accustom a child to work, explaining along the way the essence of the Law of Compensation. But it doesn't have to be money, for there are other forms of compensation.

The pure in heart is the one who lives according to the Laws or close to it. Naturally, they are not selfish.

Your case is far from unique. Unfortunately, our human "like-dislike" almost always refers to the mere physical appearance of a person. Only a rich inner spiritual world creates a vibrant personality, actively attracting people's attention.
Strive for it, and your life will change for the better.
In the meantime, your fate is signaling - that happiness in your personal life still needs to be earned.

Having understood the Laws and acting according to them, man receives considerable spiritual strength and, thus, abilities. Living righteously, he will do good and create beauty. For this, the Light endows him with such power.

Your algorithm is correct. The speed of reaction will improve with time through multiple repetitions and experiences.

In marriage, the one who often offends their spouse is the destroyer of a good relationship. Eventually, the spouse runs out of patience and leaves the family, having a full right to do so. I want to emphasize that both parties are to blame for the broken relationship, although perhaps not equally.

When expressing your opinion on the spiritual topic, forget about yourself. Concentrate on being better understood, and choose simple and convincing arguments. In this inner busyness of your brain and sincere intention to explain the Word to your loved ones, your tone of voice will be calm and not pompous.

Our spirit slumbered for a very long time. The more often you use it in different situations, invoking your spiritual intuitive perceptions, the faster it will wake up, gradually acquiring maturity. It is our central spiritual goal. Whether we manage to wake up in time or not depends on our efforts.

Thoughts that break the Laws of God are demons, and thoughts that do not violate those Laws can either be beneficial or worthless. But you need to consider one critical moment. By agreeing with the "illegal" thoughts, you give your personal spiritual stamp of approval. Then those thoughts turn into your personal demons, and you will answer for them before the Law. So, it would be valuable for you to know the Laws well enough and regularly check if your thoughts violate them.

For your intuitive perception to be genuine, your faith must be of a high degree. Additionally, long experience, considerable patience, and systematic elimination of sins are necessary. Then, gradually, you will acquire an intuitive perception that will not deceive you. Errors from time to time are inevitable, but they will gradually decrease. It happens with any educational training.
The liberation of the soul is a very serious process, and the duration of it depends on your will and the amount of your past karma.

You have misunderstood this part of the Message. Ignoring thoughts is the wrong method. It is necessary to use your willpower and force your thinking to figure out the meaning of texts, analyze your behavior, draw conclusions, and make decisions. Otherwise, there will never be any Flow of the Higher Power or any gaining of insight. Using your intuitive perception helps you to grope the correct understanding of the Word, and the brain, realizing the logic of It, plants it in your memory.

If you have good faith when building images and these images are really helping you in defending from the Darkness, then they are in the intuitive perception.

In this case, the author means that emotional memories and experiences can help you get from under the control of the Darkness. We must not miss the chance to wake up spiritually and seize this moment.

No, it is not cold-heartedness but your defense mechanism. Your indifference is a shield that blocks the astral demonic forces that this selfish, ungrateful relative is trying to dump on you. You have that right.

True faith is always accompanied by trust in God. Many people who consider themselves believers live in fear for their future, their children's future, etc. There are many reasons causing fears. It indicates that those people's faith is not genuine or they are spiritually lazy. In that case, fears about possible troubles may well become a reality.
Humility is a life stance. It is when a person understands that the process of redemption is inevitable and is extremely useful and accepts each day without fear and reproach. Do not confuse trust with humility; they are two different concepts. Read carefully the end of the article Fear (https://keyssky.com/en/statii-en/92-fear). There are detailed explanations for your question about trust. And the article Resentment (https://keyssky.com/en/statii-en/55-resentment) speaks of the essence of humility.
Faith also includes trust. If there is no trust, fears come causing faith instantly die. Experience confirms that living with trust in God, given steady spiritual growth, leads to conviction.

If you want to understand the meaning of life, why our destiny is not always favorable, and how to change it for the better, read the book.
If you don't feel like reading this book and are not interested in the above matters, there is no need to force yourself.

Your question can be answered only regarding a specific situation. But we can say that in the world created by the Perfect Will of the Creator, all is fair. For example, a good person, who may have violated the Law many years ago, is now suffering. If he does not have faith, he, respectively, lacks the understanding of the act of the Law of Retribution. Thus, he will not connect this negative event with his past misconduct and will consider it evil. Almost all people on Earth have such an outlook. There is a colossal release of negative emotions, thoughts, words, and deeds: fear, resentment, anger, revenge, and much more. In response to the works of the Laws to return sins to their source, which manifests itself in global events, there is chronically a false reaction of people to those events. It repeatedly generates a new round of sins - evil. There is no humility, i.e., no one wants to answer for their transgressions. Thus, the severity of the punishment is increasing, and the speed of its return is accelerating. Genuine goodness, still sometimes present in people, is drowning in the sea of evil.

Depending on the severity of the karma of a particular person and his current situation, it is possible to have:
A. Only one way out
B. Several options
C. No way out at all
The word “Truth” is irrelevant to your question. The Truth is an infinite concept. To express it for human understanding, we, at best, only remain in the neverending movement toward it.

Envy is the byproduct of vanity and, in a way, a lack of humility. A person wants to have what he is not entitled to today based on the assessment of his spiritual state from the point of view of the Higher Laws. In addition, envy attacks and interferes with the life of the person he envies. Thus, envy is also an act of aggression. You must remember that envy also returns a hundredfold to you and will seriously complicate your life by increasing troubles. And by being jealous, you are violating the Law of Choice, which means you are opposing the Holy Spirit. Don’t you want to be free to choose? Then why not recognize this right for others? Again, jealousy is a form of vanity. Perhaps, it is involuntary valuing yourself as an exceptional individual who does not want to reckon with the Higher Laws while demanding others to fulfill the very same Laws when interacting with you.

Mental images are created by your rational mind, and they lack power. On the other hand, images in intuitive perception are generated by the spirit. They are charged with enough force to fight the Darkness, given that the person possesses genuine spiritual faith.

If a person annoys you and it is impossible to avoid interaction with him, you need to understand that you have similar emotions to your character, which you need to work on eliminating faster. Here the Law of Similarity is at work, meaning you attract irritability. Darkness through this person probes you for emotional stability, precisely on irritability. It will always be the case as long as you have that negative emotion in you.

Most likely, it is poor spiritual work. Because even spiritually strong people have many questions.

The wedding ceremony is a beautiful tradition and should be carried out at will. And from the point of view of spiritual relations, with true love present, this ritual is not so important. It is not for nothing they say that marriages are made in heaven, for a union in love in spirit is the real wedding.

Man is a spirit embodied in an earthly physical cloak. The spiritual, that is, the human task is to realize the meaning of one's existence, to realize the laws of this world and not only the manifested gross matter but the rest of its components. It becomes possible on the condition of getting rid of spiritual laziness and sins. Only then does a person, living according to the laws, transition from an unconscious state into a conscious one. A person without faith in God does not even set such a spiritual goal for himself since he does not see the point in it. Our site has articles, such as "Destroyed Bridge", etc., that will give you a detailed answer to your question.

Blood transfusion is employed to treat certain illnesses or save lives. Here, spiritual harm is of no concern. The main goal is to help the body.
It is difficult to assess the degree of spiritual damage in specific cases. On the one hand, souls with different strength levels participate in the process. At the same time, the transfused blood can be of various purity of emanation. I mean not the biochemical composition of the blood but the degree of contamination of the biofield of the donor whose blood bears the imprint of his personal moral state.
Sometimes, I think, a strong soul can assimilate and eventually eliminate the negativity introduced in with the blood.

It is not the medicine that hinders the redemption process but the lack of humility. You can take medication. The important thing is to understand how necessary the medication is since all chemicals come with side effects. If you learn the causes of the disease and take action, you can quickly restore health with minimal or even no medication.

All souls there are different. And for each soul individually, the decision will be made by the Holy Will.

Perhaps, you can work out a small part of karma by doing so if it comes from the heart. However, to fully
answer this question, it is necessary to know your biography going back several lifetimes. Only the Holy Will
can know this.

We must fight not with physical desire but with our shortcomings. Our deficiencies prevent us from being happy in every way. If we reduce our flaws, then a proper match will eventually appear.

Being direct is beneficial at the right moment under certain circumstances, but rudeness is always unnecessary. Straightforwardness at the wrong moment is considered a lack of tact.

Fear is not conquered by forms but by strong faith. Such faith holds the principal conviction in the immeasurable superiority of the Power of the Creator over the possibilities of the Darkness. If there is no such conviction, then faith is not real. And if there is, the fear disappears.

His life has been lived. Apparently, the spirit slept through it, and his sinful past returned in the form of dementia. All that is left for the relatives is to pray for him.

Yes, you probably learned your lesson from this life episode. Mistakes have already taken place. After a while, they will manifest in your life as some adversity. I hope you have enough knowledge, will, and patience to accept it adequately.

I would not trust them. Your relation to them has nothing to do with it. You can tolerate their lies or find a way to take action. We learn to live, and the best teacher for us is the Word of God that visited the Earth, but most people bypass It.

First, I will answer the question “how?” It will be taken from the one who does not have it. "It" is the Force given from Above to a person who makes a serious effort on the path of spiritual development. This intelligent Force comes to a person as help from the Light for genuine spiritual actions. So, it will be taken from the one who does not use this Force and will be given to the one who does since spiritual movement requires much effort.
And "when"? It will be when the weak one becomes strong or the strong one weakens and ceases to act.

I did not study the specifics of the period of the female menstrual cycle. I cannot answer this question. I can only say that a spiritually mature woman will not be irritated in any phase of her life. If there is irritability at this time of the month, then under unrelated life circumstances other negative emotions can be present. They have to be coped with. See information on this topic on our site.

Yes, it is not easy to raise children, especially in times of a rapid decline in cultural standards. There are no good examples for them to follow. Children are curious and eagerly absorb all the information that surrounds them. The only way to help them is to set a role model presented by parents or talented teachers whom you can still find out there. You can spark their interest and passion in some rewarding activity. From a parent, this requires constant attention, time, and love for our dear little ones.

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Some dreams warn a person about an upcoming event in real life. These dreams come from the spirit, not from the brain.

This cannot be explained in a nutshell. There are detailed answers in lectures and articles on our website.

There are no such services. But there are answers in the lectures and articles posted on this site. Also, there is the Grail Message to refer to for your questions.

It is not easy to protect yourself from them. Sins of a person, if he does not battle with them, attract such demons. See lectures and articles on the site. There are detailed answers to your questions.

Forms are strong when faith is strong. Otherwise, they are a product of the imagination of the rational mind. Forms must be changed (updated) all the time, or they will stop protecting us. Thus, the Light stimulates our spiritual ingenuity and forces us to eliminate laziness.

Because demons do not tolerate beauty, decency, honesty, etc., they create obstacles wherever possible.

At that time, I was not familiar with the works of Abd-Ru-Shin. I only had about 2-3 months of experience in the spiritual field. The error concerning this acquaintance of mine and the consequence of the error led me to the realization of what is good and what is evil. There were other mistakes as well. Analyzing and getting rid of them, I was gaining more experience. I remember that my first intuitive perceptions came rather quickly, thanks to the help from Above.

There are no universal answers. Each case has its own reason for fear.
If the source of fear is unclear, most likely, some negative energy entered your biofield. An in-depth diagnosis is needed to get to the root cause of it. Fear can result from other people's influence, or it could be that the general negative background has intensified.

Yes, this is a violation of the commandment.

Read the article "How to keep faith" on our website in the section "articles".
https://keyssky.com/en/statii-en/127-kak-sokhranit-veru-how-to-keep-faith

First, you want to verify whether this is really cold-heartedness. Because some people are not worthy of sympathy, and your soul refuses to sympathize.
Empathy makes you open up to a person or situation, and then third-party problems begin entering your biofield. Therefore, we must learn how to sympathize while not letting negative energy into our field.
And if you do have cold-heartedness, you must learn how to love, starting with small things.
Read the chapter "Religion of Love" in the three-volume book of Abd-Ru-Shin.

Unfortunately, a man/woman relationship has nearly reached a dead end. So it is almost impossible to give recommendations. You can be as upset as you like, but if you are attractive, you will always receive attention from the opposite sex. The bottom line is that if you refuse their attention, in most cases, you will encounter resentment due to their crushed ego.

If you are working on yourself, it is advisable to figure out what causes your irritation and remember which law you are violating. And if you realize that you are breaking the Law of God, you will understand that you are opposing the Holy Will by doing so. I think this motivation is sufficient to deal with your irritability.

You cannot learn this in a nutshell. First, try to divert your thinking in a positive direction. For this to happen, it is necessary to exercise your will. Naturally, it is desirable to have faith because you cannot accomplish it on your own.

Yes, people who experienced clinical death saw what surrounds us. And everyone has their own personal hell woven from their own unredeemed sins.

You need to tune in with your soul to your offender. If your mood does not deteriorate from this, then the resentment is gone. If you still detect animosity, then some leftovers of resentment are present.

The fact is that they should show gratitude, but often it is not the case. The reason is that we exist in increasingly adverse human relations. The pressure of the Darkness is growing. It affects both adults and children. Children from an early age begin to experience this pressure. The more their brain develops, the more they, through the reasoning mind, are subject to the stress of this negativity. And the more difficult it is for parents to cope with any abnormal manifestations of their behavior.
If the parents are spiritually strong, they can protect their children from this influence.

For example, I can offer you an impulse to the high and pure in a conscientious performance at work. Also, you can express it in relationships with friends, children, etc. And it is also imperative to apply such an impulse in family relationships to maintain harmony and peace.

Darkness breaks through the music because concentration is not needed to play a melody in your head. It spins in your head without applying any concentration. And to create a sequence of mental images, you need attention, the increase of will and its concentration.

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If there is faith and a pretty quick spiritual movement toward getting rid of your shortcomings, you can successfully resist the onslaught of the Darkness and be in a positive mood more often. For this, besides faith, strong will and patience are needed.

Not "the closer to the end", but the longer you are in the spiritual topic, the more the time limit allotted for redemption from sins is exhausted. It is as destructive as the amount of accumulated karma and how often you continue making mistakes.

The time of the Antichrist began long ago, as did the Final Judgment. Watch lectures on the site, read articles, and read the Grail Message by Abd-Ru-Shin, where everything related to the topic is explained in detail.

For many, even hard-core sinners, everything is fine for now. Read the article "Love your enemies" on our website. It holds an answer to your question. Everyone gets their due punishment in due time. Do not doubt the justice of the Creator.

You cannot defend yourself until you have protection from the Power of the Cross (the Holy Will). But such protection needs to be earned. How? By genuine faith, a real battle against your own sins, including envy. If you had not had envy within you, then someone else's envy would not have "pierced" you. That is how the Law of Similarity works, attracting homogeneous substances.

A situation becomes hopeless if one is not committed to spiritual development or if he tries to practice it but loses faith or lacks it altogether. Then, he loses the support of the Light, and his fate becomes less favorable in many life circumstances, including yours.

No, they cannot. Karma is exclusively a personal responsibility of a sinner. What they can dump on you is only their negative emotions.

In some cases, yes. I do not presume to testify for all situations out there. If one has faith and a fairly quick spiritual movement toward eliminating personal shortcomings, one can successfully resist the onslaught of the Darkness. Then he will more often experience a good, positive mood.

First, ask if the spiritual topic is of interest to them. If so, suggest looking at our site or reading a few first chapters of the Grail Message.
However, do not insist on it.
There will be no danger to you then.

I would not hide this intention from a loved one. But you are free to act how your soul desires. Well, the local grave house (did you mean the prayer house?) is unknown to me as the people who baptize there. Personally, I have a bad feeling about the house you've mentioned. Maybe the husband is correct and also feels negativity associated with that place. The child may start feeling worse after a potentially fake baptism.