It is hard to imagine someone who would not want to be in a good relationship. Our hearts so anxiously seek love because, as they say, love is a lifeline. But do we know how to love? Until we get rid of our vices, probably not. After all, love is a renunciation of egoism.
Love is truly a lifeline, but only when you are in the process of eliminating your vices. There is no point in hoping that love will come from Above. It will not come. Love must be earned, love must be learned.
It turns out that to get rid of our vices at an accelerated pace, we must love, and in order to truly love, we must quickly get rid of our mistakes. Such a vicious circle.
So what do we do?
First, eliminate all that is bad in us since our deficiencies will definitely surface when we truly open up to someone. Or when they will truly open up to us.
It seems to me now that it is much easier to cope with life problems alone. It is hard to love someone when you live "in hell" which is very similar to the situation on Earth. When opening up to someone, you must be careful and keep your distance until you know who is standing before you.
It is always good and comfortable to be with someone in the beginning. And we gradually drown in this comfort and pleasure. All this is just a superficial image of happiness behind which both souls are drowning.
To receive something, you must be able to give. It is the Law of the Universe, and first of all, it speaks of love, love without fear and reproach.
Love is strict and just. Be just with yourself and strict in assessing your capabilities.
Strygina, A. A.
August 2023
